When men approach BBW, they tend to forget that it isn't about gaming a woman; it's mostly about being able to hold an interesting conversation with her. A guy that knows how to hold interesting conversations will be MUCH more successful than any guy claiming to use game as a means to an end. As men, we overlook how important conversation is to chubby women. Conversation is almost the equivalent of sex for a overweight woman. If you are a great conversationalist, you have the ability to "pussy whip" a plus size woman using nothing more than the words that are leaving your mouth. Some of you may think I'm joking when I say that, but I assure you that you won't be laughing once you understand the point that I'm trying to get across. To give you an idea of what I'm talking about, if we have a wife or girlfriend, and she stops having sex with us, we might get upset, but for the most part, we can live with that. On the other hand, if you are a guy that a woman absolutely loves talking to, and you go cold turkey and completely stop talking to her, she is likely to go absolutely ballistic.

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A woman will stalk you, threaten to kill you, cry her eyes out, and just lose herself if she can't talk to a guy that she loves talking to. When a guy cheats on a woman, she is more likely to go ballistic over you spending quality time and conversing with another busty woman over her than what she would over the actual sex with another woman. And when is a woman the most happy in a marriage? When she absolutely loves talking to the guy she's with. Getting back to game, it is almost completely unnecessary when you approach a chubby girl. I always tell guys to just learn how to have interesting conversations with people if they want to get good with BBW. Why? If you can have a really good conversation with a plus size woman, not only will she ignore your flaws, but she is likely to obsess over you, even if you aren't her typical type of guy. You should become so good in conversation that someone could throw you any topic, and you could talk about that one topic for a very extensive period of time. I have literally spent hours talking about one topic with women.

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Conversation is not about getting from point a to point b. It is not about game. It is about enjoying the moment, and almost every single player or PUA that I come across can't seem to get that through their skulls. In the same way that sex is good just for the feeling of doing it, for BBW, so is conversation. When a woman is in a very engaging conversation, she feels rewarded, and is much more likely to give you what you want. I'll give you a few examples. The other day, I was driving home with a busty girl, and she basically said that she wasn't going to have sex with me because she thought I was a player trying to game her. Did I try to convince her to sleep with me? No. I simply talked to her about why she feels the way that she does, and told her how I felt about it. What happened? She ended up coming in and having sex with me. Not because of game, but because I "got it" and realized that she just wanted to talk. No goal in mind or convincing to be done; she wanted to talk about it. So many guys screw things up by trying to run game when game isn't what the situation calls for. BBW just want to communicate. That's it.

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In a few other examples, some of you guys have read my stories where I basically tell a girl that I want sex from her and nothing more, or to take her home. Did I try to game them after I said that? Nope. I simply held interesting conversations with these girls without an agenda. And what happened? These BBW ended up leaving with me at the end of the night. They just wanted to communicate with no goal in mind. Interesting conversation is what they wanted. It wasn't game that convinced them to come home with me. They felt stimulated by the rewarding conversation, so they wanted to reward me in return by leaving with me.

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In a few other examples, BBW that know who I am told me that they were not going to have sex with me because of my status as a player-type. Did I try to game them? Nope. Those chubby girls were sitting there, looking for me to try to execute some kind of slick move, without realizing that I was attracting them to me, not through game or some kind of slick move, but by stimulating their reward center with interesting conversation. Almost all of those busty girls ended up in bed or making out with me at some point, and I didn't do a damn thing game-wise.

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Conversation is the key to attracting BBW, and more importantly, keeping them attracted. You don't need game, slick moves, or routines. If you are a really good conversationalist, busty women will be on you like flies on shit, and they will want to keep you around at all costs. The lack of emphasis on good conversation skills, and an emphasis on point a to point b, "game" and other fancy slick moves, is precisely why so many men fail when they approach big women, and fail to keep women. If a woman becomes addicted to talking to you, metaphorically, you will have her by the balls.

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